As a man, you can be friends with a lots of different kinds of people, but if you’re in a committed relationship, there’s one type of friend that you absolutely cannot have - a hot friend. I’m talking, of course, about the female variety. You can have hot dude friends. No one will care about that, but a hot girl friend quickly puts an unnecessary burden on the ’ship.
Girls can be friends with some dreamboat from work or a guy she met at the gym, but if you try to invite some hottie with a body to your next dinner party, you’re in for a world of suspicion. You’re always on the hook for why you’re friends - as if it’s okay to be friends with a hundred smart, funny, ugly girls, but one smart, funny, pretty girl sets off all the alarms.
Additionally, girlfriends resort to their disastrously catty selves, where every comment and question is intended to tear down other women - in this case, the hot friend.
Why is that?
simply, it hurts some women. sure if its a particularly strong relationship it shouldn’t matter but the thought may linger in the back of our minds… “Are we good enough?” Men cheat, women cheat. Both genders are guilty of enjoying cheating, finding ways to do it, ect. If people didnt cheat, this wouldn’t be an issue. Most people however are not honest, get pushed into relationships, the flame fizzles… It all comes down to what most relationships lack, good communication.
I think it depends on what you mean by “friend”. If you are in a committed relationship then you owe it to your girlfriend or wife to not get close to other women that could be a threat or considered a threat to your relationship. If she loves you she will be jealous and it’s disrespectful to her as well.
The only time they think straight is when they have an erection, and it’s usually pointed right at the trampiest women. -Viola from Monster-in-Law